I encourage Ann to find out if Dan is jealous, or feels that the problem is Ann doing something “sexy.” If Dan is feeling insecure, I suggest he work on those feelings himself.
I tell Ann it’s definitely inappropriate for Dan’s insecurity to dictate what she does with her free time and encourage her to continue doing what she wants.
I think they both have valid points and suggest Ann spend more time with Dan.
It’s definitely inappropriate for Ann to be out dancing, especially if there’s other guys. She should be with Dan.