Olivia should just stop doing the housework until Jacob realizes how much she does.
It’s never good to make your partner feel bad about themselves, so she should make sure her requests are always polite and timed well.
Time for a CHORE CHART!
Olivia should be very open with her partner and express that it makes her frustrated that she does most of the work. They should work together to divide the housework and make a schedule they can both accept.