Can You Pass the Ultimate Love Test?

Olivia James

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This quiz might be the hardest one you ever take. It may also be one of the most important. That’s because we’re about to ask you all about love and romance, to see if you can spot healthy relationships, signs of love, and red flags. That’s right, this is the ultimate love test and we’re aboShow More

We’ll talk about arguments, jealousy, compliments, criticism, money, and all the things that can make or break a relationship to see what your take is on each one. Some might be challenging, but some you should definitely know the answers to.

We’ll reveal whether you’re an expert in the ways of love or if you’re still taking your first steps into understanding love and relationships.

If all that sounds intimidating, don’t worry! It’s just an internet test. It doesn’t really know anything about you. Or does it?

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Do you think it's possible to change a partner?

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Absolutely! If someone cares about you, they’ll outgrow their faults.
I think there are some people out there who can change, but not many.
People don’t change.
A partner might tweak some small things, but it’s never good to expect it.

If you love someone, then all you should need to be happy is them, right?

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Right!
A good relationship can do a lot, but it can’t solve every situation.
Wow that’s a lot of pressure to put on your partner. Be happy with yourself first.

Should you schedule sex with a long term partner?

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Yes. It’s important to make time for sex.
That just seems so unromantic. It should be spontaneous and fun.
I’d rather not, but maybe sometimes.

Do you think that strong couples should fight?

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Yes. Everyone disagrees, but it’s about how you handle it and repair it.
Fighting should be rare in a strong relationship, but it will happen sometimes.
Good couples should argue, not fight.
No, good couples shouldn’t fight at all.
Yeah, all couples fight all the time.

How do you like to show affection?

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It depends on the person I’m with. I try to express it in ways that they appreciate.
I try to show affection in a variety of different ways: physicality, kind words, doing nice things.
I tell my partner that I love them.
I’m incredibly physical. I just can’t keep my hands off my partner.

True or false: jealousy is a sign of love.

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True
False

Do you think it's ok to watch porn in a relationship?

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Yeah, unless it’s stopping the couple from being physical together.
It’s ok unless one of the partners sees a problem with it.
It’s fine, just don’t talk about it.
Gross.
That’s basically cheating.

Is it ok to have a significant age gap in relationships?

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Yeah, why wouldn’t it be?
That’s horrible! Ew!
I think it really depends on the couple.
The important element is whether the couple is on the same page in life, and age can be a factor.
It definitely can be healthy, but it can also be a way to be predatory.

Should your partner have close friends of the gender they're attracted to?

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Sure!
Maybe. But I’d be suspicious.
No way.

How important is sex in a relationship?

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Sex is an important ingredient in most relationships, but it’s not THE most important ingredient.
The importance of sex depends on the couple.
If a couple isn’t having sex, there’s a problem.
Sex doesn’t really matter.
If there’s a good sexual connection, everything else is secondary.

Do you make yourself vulnerable in relationships?

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I try to communicate with my partner so that we can both be vulnerable, but in ways and places that make sense.
I’m fairly shy about being vulnerable. But sometimes I’ll open up.
I share literally everything with my partner. Unconditional trust!
No, that’s how you get hurt.

If you are having a disagreement with your partner, how do you approach the conversation?

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I want to figure out how we can have better interactions in the future.
I try to understand their perspective better.
I just want the argument to be over.
I want to win.
I want to prove that I’m right.

Do you ever leave fights overnight without settling them?

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Sometimes we both need space. In those cases, I’d rather wait until we’re calm to talk.
No, one of the best pieces of advice I got was “don’t go to bed angry.”
Sometimes, although I don’t like it.
I have fights that are years old.

Do you always want to know where your partner is?

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Yes, it’s important to me to keep tabs on them.
Honestly I don’t know where they are most of the time and that’s fine.
I like to communicate with my partner so we each have a general idea of what the other’s up to.

Your partner says "jump off this cliff. I promise you'll be safe." Should you trust them?

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If the context gives me reasons to trust them, then I will.
I need some evidence first.
I probably would, as long as my partner doesn’t usually trick me.
No frickin’ way!
Yes. Love is faith.

Should you ever lie to your partner?

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Absolutely not.
Honestly yes. There are things they don’t get.
There have been one or two big lies. But generally no.
I might tell a white lie or two, especially for something like a surprise party.

Do you think that if you're in the right relationship it will take hard work, or it will just come naturally?

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When you’re with the right person, nothing is hard.
It’s always hard. If it’s worth having you should fight for it.
All relationships take hard work, even the good ones. With the right person you still have to invest time and communication and planning.
It’s a mix: things will be easier with the right person, and you’ll want to do it more. But you’ll still have problems and need to work to prioritize the relationship.

Do you think couples should talk about money?

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No, that’s tacky and private.
I mean…at least before you get married.
It’s important to be open with your partner about finances so you’re both on the same page.

Every relationship requires sacrifice. True or false?

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True
False

Is it normal for a partner to look over your texts or emails?

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I don’t have any problem with my partner seeing many of my texts and emails, but it’s really healthy to have boundaries and privacy.
Absolutely! I shouldn’t hide anything from my partner.
I mean kind of. Why are they being so nosy?